What do teachers do during the summer?

Know why all these loungers are empty? Because all the teachers are still working!

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It’s the first day of June! Summer is approaching and it reminded me of some of the most infuriating things that people say to teachers:

  • “Must be nice to get summers off.”
  • “You’re so lucky, you don’t have to work during the summer!”
  • “You’re so lucky, you get Christmas AND March Break off too?!”
  • “It must be great getting off work at 3pm.”
  • “You get to play with kids all day, that’s awesome!”
  • “Sometimes I wish I became a teacher, I love kids.”

All teachers can now join me in a collective sigh of resigned frustration…SIGH.

 

“Must be nice to get summers off,” “You’re so lucky, you don’t have to work during the summer,” “You’re so lucky, you get Christmas AND March Break off?!” 

Christmas, March Break, and Summer breaks are yes, time off for teachers. HOWEVER, most teachers will take courses to update their skills (especially in the public sector where I believe that it’s a requirement). With Montessori teachers, it’s not uncommon for teachers to take a part-time job to supplement their income. Every Montessori school is owned individually so salaries will vary but on the whole, Montessori teacher salaries are low. Most teachers that I know have started at the high 20′s – low 30′s. The salaries usually are not pro-rated (I think that’s the right term), so you are not paid during the summer.

Also, those are our set vacation times, and those are usually the peak times for flying and vacation destinations. You can’t really in good conscious take off a week in February to lie out on a sunny island somewhere.

Teachers are usually officially back to work by mid-August to prepare their classrooms, attend staff meetings, meet the families, etc. Most will have been working well before that to make their year plans, research ways to improve lessons, and get material ready. If you’re a Montessori teacher, you’ll have most likely spent some of your summer making materials and/or spending part of your last paycheque buying materials.

 

“You get to play with kids all day, that’s awesome!”

Teaching is not easy. When I was teaching, I would go to bed going over the day, thinking about what happened, what still needs to be done, my different students, what I could have done differently…then a few hours later I’d wake up and immediately begin going through my day (what I need to remember to bring/prepare that morning, the lessons that I’ll be teaching, which students are away/need extra attention that day, etc.).

If all students looked like this kid, would it be great or a bit creepy?

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During the day you feel like you’re constantly ON. Teaching is a unique profession (well, it’s not considered a profession, but should be!) in that your personality truly plays a large part. Children are smart. If you’re not confident, they will zero in on that and you’ll have lost them before you’ve even started! Contrary to popular belief, you are not required to be some freaky smiley happy robot the entire day nor an unflinchingly strict schoolmarm-type…but you may have to learn to fluctuate sanely between the two!

Children, especially the younger ones, need your attention constantly. Honestly, you are with them for more waking hours than their families. So while you’re mostly their teacher, sometimes you also have to be a parent to them.

A teacher’s focus is not just on the students’ academic development. Their social, emotional, physical, and moral development are very important because you want to focus on the whole child. In Montessori, there are many inherent moral lessons in the curriculum (e.g. Grace & Courtesy lessons) and respect for others and the environment is just as important as math and science.

In Montessori, the teacher builds lessons around the individual student. This means that every day, students are receiving different lessons depending on their level of skill and readiness. When I taught elementary, I taught all the “core” subjects: arithmetic, language, geography, botany, zoology, and history. Within each subject, students will be in different places so I would have to keep track of who is learning what and when, and also make sure that they are completing their follow-up work (after I’ve made it up!) and also making sure that they comprehend what they’ve learned.

In addition, Montessori teachers rely on their observations to help them know what the student needs at the time. A part of the day is dedicated to making detailed observation notes on the students. It could be anything from documenting which lesson was presented and their response to the fact that their mother is traveling out of town this week (which may later come in handy in figuring out why the student is acting up).

Oh yeah, and don’t forget that in a Montessori classroom, there are three age levels! So times all of the above by three!

Lunch time rolls around and I…go to the freakin’ washroom! I swear my bladder and appetite became coordinated with the school schedule. It’s not impossible but sometimes inconvenient to go get someone to cover your room while you run to the ladies’. I have a personal theory that there is probably a higher amount of UTI infections in teachers!

Then I’d scarf down my packed lunch and then use the rest of the time marking work, checking parent emails, or prepping stuff for the afternoon.

If there’s a specialty class and all the students are out of the class at once (and at the first school that I taught at, that barely happened since I also had to teach art and gym), that precious hour is dedicated to marking and more lesson prep.

 

“It must be great getting off work at 3pm.”

It’s 3:15pm and dismissal begins. Either you’re on dismissal duty or watching the students who are in after school care until after school actually starts. After that, you’re technically free to leave for the day, but most teachers I know stay later to finish the never-ending marking, prepare lesson materials for the next day, or to run one of their afternoon after-school clubs (in my last school all teachers had to run at least one club).

You may have to prepare an age-appropriate craft for a holiday that’s coming up or write up a field trip note to send home next week.

You get home and you still might have marking to be done for the next day (especially if a large project was due or if you’re teaching older grades whose work is longer and more complicated– Montessori does not use textbooks so it’s more complicated as we don’t have an answer key to refer to all the time).

M is for Montessori!

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“Sometimes I wish I became a teacher, I love kids.”

Unfortunately, it takes more than a love for kids to be a teacher, something I learned the hard way my first year teaching. There is so much that goes behind each lesson and each day that you must put in the time and effort to be prepared with Plan A and Plan B (and sometimes Plan C!).

If you just walk into a classroom armed with just your love for kids and enthusiasm, that might work out for a couple hours, even a whole day. But you have the rest of the year (or in Montessori, 3 years) to guide each student to develop academically, socially, and emotionally and that takes your intellect, experience, common sense, and not a little bit of gumption!

It’s worth it just for the free fruit, right? :) For the record, I’ve only gotten one apple from a student and it was the SWEETEST thing ever!

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One of my pet peeves are the people who go into teaching because they “didn’t know what else to do.” I think any teacher who takes their job seriously would find this incredibly insulting. That’s not to say any of those people may not end up becoming great teachers (People change and are willing to learn. Plus it’s easy to love those kids!), but to those who are just there for the paycheque and the “summers off” (since they probably aren’t putting in the effort to upgrade their skills or prepare for the upcoming year)…no thanks…no thanks.

 

I read that teaching has the highest number of people who leave the profession within the first five years of work. If you are there to really teach (and thankfully most teacher I know are!) and don’t believe in coasting just to pick up a paycheque, then teaching is very difficult. But OF COURSE there are of course so many rewarding moments and times when you just feel like there’s nothing else you want to be doing that makes it all worth it!

 

Wow, I didn’t anticipate such a long post…but there’s a lot more to say about this topic!

Looking for “Montessori” toys?

 

First, let me be clear: Montessori materials (the materials that Dr. Montessori so carefully developed) are never considered toys. Actually, they are considered children’s work.

However, there are some toys out there that seem to align with Montessori philosophy and could be thought of as Montessori-inspired or Montessori-like toys.

I went to a warehouse sale the other day and was on the hunt for some deals on toys that I could use for future Montessori activities. I found this gorgeous Plan Toy that will be perfect for a colour sorting activity and a great example of a Montessori-inspired toy that can be used as a Montessori activity!

A friend gave Freestyle a Plan Toy when she was just born and recommended the line (come to think of it, she’s also a Montessori teacher!). They are eco-friendly and seem to be an ethical company, but the price tag reflects this (fair enough!). So I was so excited to see a table full of the toys at the warehouse sale!

 

This particular toy has a lot of the characteristics of a Montessori activity:

  • Made of a natural material– wood (from an eco-friendly and sustainable resource)
  • Bright and beautiful colours and appearance– attractive to children (and their parents!)
  • High-quality production– Montessori materials should be made for longevity so that the children have experience cleaning and taking care of them so that they do last for the next child.
  • Built-in Control of Error– The bees should match the hive colour when the activity is complete.
  • Made ethically, in an environmentally-friendly manner– bonus!
  • There is only one isolated quality– Montessori materials isolate a single quality to introduce new concepts. This way, the child is able to recognize the difference between the objects. Here, the bees and beehives are the same shape and size and they have the same appearance save for the colour. The child is then able to focus on the colours since everything else is the same!

 

So those are a few things to keep in mind when you are looking for Montessori-inspired toys and activities for your child. Don’t forget to only introduce the activity when you believe that your child is prepared (mentally and physically) for it. This is to ensure that they are Set Up for Success* an important aspect of Montessori philosophy.

Colour sorting activities such as this one are easy to DIY!

  • Save/buy your own small containers (yogurt cups, baby food jars, paper cups, etc.)
  • Paint/cover the containers with coloured construction paper.
  • Collect/buy small objects that will fit into the containers in matching colours (marbles, buttons, beads, etc.)
  • Tongs are optional. You can also use a spoon to spoon the items from a clear glass container to the coloured containers. Younger children can even use their fingers and practice their pincer grip!

 

*Montessori teachers (and parents!) make sure to Set Up Their Children For Success. This means that before any lesson is introduced, the teacher has considered the child’s abilities and experience and believes that he or she is ready for the new lesson. Using the above activity as an example, I wouldn’t introduce it to Freestyle until she develops the fine motor skills to use the tongs.

The lesson is thoroughly thought-out and planned, which means that all materials and resources are prepared and ready to be used and that the teacher herself is familiar with the step-by-step instructions and the desired outcome. If I introduced this activity and didn’t have the tongs on hand, it would take away from the momentum as I leave to go look for them, wouldn’t it? Also, it would not help in teaching Freestyle to be prepared!

Any setbacks are anticipated and the teacher is ready to assist or even stop the lesson and re-introduce it when the child is better ready.

I always had to consciously keep this in mind while in the classroom, and I have to admit that sometimes during especially busy times of the year I forgot to consider it and it did not lead to a great lesson! This way of thinking can also apply to many aspects of parenting, huh?

And now for a very timely lesson…

Ahem.

Today we hit a record-breaking temperature of 30 degrees celsius! So of course I thought it would be a perfect day to post about how to teach your toddler to put on her own jacket. Ha ha…

In my own defense, I actually taught this to Freestyle a few weeks ago when the weather was still up and down and some days she did need a jacket. :)

 

How to Put On A Jacket! 

Age: 18 months + (an estimate only, use your own judgement because all children develop differently!)

Purpose: This is a Practical Life exercise– Care of Self. This helps build their independence and take pride in their appearance (and their ability to dress themselves!).

Materials: A jacket.

 

What to do:

I started by using my own jacket and showing Freestyle how to do it. Then I placed her jacket beside mine and we did it together!

1. Lay your child’s jacket flat on the floor in front of her, upside-down.

2. Show her how to put her hands into the sleeves and then lift the jacket up and over her head.

3. Help her finish stretch out her arms through the sleeves.

 

Go further:

  • I taught this separately to Freestyle when she was younger, when I still helped her with her jacket. I would insert the zipper for her and then hold the edge of the coat down (like in the photo) and tell her to pull the zipper up.

Have fun!

More affordable Montessori materials

A basket to store materials on a shelf, two small pitchers for pouring exercises (originally creamers– they had a LOT of them), and two dishes with round indents which I’ll use for transferring activities and even colour mixing. I’m not even sure what they’re used for…holding boiled eggs?!

 

I’ve been trying to accumulate things to use for Montessori activities on the cheap, but without buying from the dollar store. I made a list of places that I will try, but left out an important one:

Thrift stores!

I love me some thrift store! Sometimes The Salvation Army stores will send a flyer advertising a 50% off sale. I’ve gotten some great stuff there. In the photo above, all the items were $0.99, except for the basket which was $2.

 

Freestyle saw me taking a photo and picked up one of the pitchers, held it up to the camera and said, “Cheese!” So cute.

 

Another great place to look is garage sales for potential materials and toys. I’ve found these two wooden toys at a garage sale for $0.25 each! They were both in pretty good condition as well.

 

I think the truck may have been made in a D&T class, haha!

Another thrift store find…originally $13 and I got it while it was in almost brand new condition for $3!

Something from nothing…

…well, just a bit of flour and oil!

All you need is olive oil, flour, and water! That’s it!

Playdough is such a fun activity for toddlers! It’s a great sensory activity (you can even add glitter or sand to add a different texture to experience). It really is something that will just take a few minutes to make and will provide hours of fun!

I kept forgetting to make some for Freestyle but finally got around to it last week. I wasn’t worried about her eating it because she’s passed that stage (though she did try some mud the other day!), but ended up using a no-salt “edible” recipe because well, I didn’t have any salt left in the house.

I found this no salt playdough recipe from Naturalparentingtips.com.

Freestyle enjoyed helping to make the playdough!

The website said that the olive oil would be nice on your hands as you played, which was true!

Didn’t have any food colouring either, but you can add that too. Just use gloves!

Et voila!

This was perfect for keeping Free busy while I made dinner.

We’re keeping it in an airtight container in the fridge and so far it’s lasted for a week. Today I noticed that the oil was separating a bit at the bottom, but I just kneaded for a minute before giving it to Freestyle and it was fine. It was actually more moist than the day I made it!

A Montessori House…sort of!

Freestyle-sized table and chair! We always have art supplies on her table so she can use them whenever she likes. The basket usually contains paper, stickers, and crayons. Sometimes she eats her snack at this table.

 

(Fair warning: This is a pretty long post!)

Montessori education focuses on preparing the child for life. One area that I always found very interesting is the one Dr. Montessori termed “Practical Life.” It’s exactly as it sounds: learning how to adapt to everyday life. This includes Care of Self (personal grooming, dress, and care) and Care of the Environment (cleaning and looking after their surroundings). Basic stuff that all children need to learn!

A beautiful, typical Montessori Casa (3-6 years) classroom at Peaceful Pathways Montessori Academy.

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To foster their independence, it is important that a Montessori classroom (or, in this case, the home) accomodates the child’s size and development. In a Montessori classroom, you will notice that everything is child-sized: low shelves, small tables and chairs, low sinks, child-sized toilets, etc. There will not even be a teacher’s desk as in traditional classrooms. The Montessori classroom is truly the “Children’s House.” It is their place of work and learning and they help to take care of the environment by cleaning up, learning how to appropriately handle materials, taking care of the plants, etc.

Another lovely classroom at Primary Montessori Day School.

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In the house, it doesn’t always seem as easy to make all these accomodations. I don’t think I’ve gone out of my way to make major changes to our house, but we have made adjustments so that Freestyle can get around and be more independent of us.

 

My attempts to make my house a Montessori environment:

1. Bathroom

- Stool (sink): Freestyle can get up and down to wash her hands and brush her teeth.

- Freestyle’s toiletries stored in that little wooden box on the sink…along with a few of Biker’s things. Most of the time, I like having her things with ours (as opposed to a special spot just for her) because she is one of us! She also has a small brush to brush her hair.

- Stool (toilet): Freestyle uses it to help her get up onto the toilet, and recently she has begun to climb up and onto the toilet herself! I found her one day just sitting there doing her business! Good thing we practiced pulling up and down underwear and pants!

- Child’s potty seat: Obvious reason- so she doesn’t fall in! This was a big fear when I had to hold her over a disgustingly full porta-potty in a park one day! Shudder.

- Towel hung low: So she can wipe her hands with ease after washing them.

- Also in the bathroom: her small tub (we are switching to the shower soon!), cloth wipes folded and stored in that green container on the toilet & a bucket behind the toilet for soiled cloth diapers (she is still wearing diapers overnight and during nap time).

 

2. Kitchen

- Booster seat: Freestyle’s never had a high chair. She has always sat at the table in her booster seat (seen in the background) so that she is part of the action!When she first started eating, we would use the tray that came with it so she could spread her food on it. Later, when she was a little neater, we would just leave the tray off and she would eat from the table with us.  Right from the get-go Freestyle attempted to use her spoon so we just let her. It was pretty messy but I do think it helped her learn to feed herself using utensils quicker. We also gave her a glass for her to drink from and she will use glass/ceramic plates and bowls. Yes, there have been a few broken glasses, but soon enough Free was able to control her movement and today drinks very well out of a glass!

- Cleaning supplies: These are kept where she can reach them. There is a cloth that she uses to wipe up spills and other messes. This is not ideal, but I end up wetting the cloth for her because we don’t have a stool tall enough for the kitchen sink. I’ll probably look for one soon. In the meantime, I’m going to add a spray bottle and teach her to use it (meaning to spray sparingly!). There is also a little broom and dustpan which she is still learning to use (before she liked to use the bigger one that I use- of course!- and is still welcome to because it’s also reachable). Freestyle will see me sweeping and then grab her little broom and follow me around saying, “Dirty, dirty.” Ahh, like father, like daughter! :)

- Freestyle’s own cupboard: Free used to go through all the cupboards and take everything out, which was fine because I moved the sharp or potentially harmful objects higher than her reach. Now she’s pretty good at not going through everything (or if she takes out the marinade brush from a drawer to play with, I’m okay with that).

Okay, I’ll admit– it’s usually not this neat! :)

This is her own cupboard. On the top shelf is usually her tupperware, cups, and cutting board. We don’t really use those plastic cups anymore (we used to use them for going out but now she has a stainless steel water bottle), but sometimes she will use them when she wants to have a drink while playing. I will eventually teach her to pour water from a pitcher and then keep the pitcher and a glass in a spot where she can pour herself a drink whenever she wants.  I don’t think she is ready just yet but maybe when she is closer to 2. I’ll also eventually place one table setting in the cupboard so Freestyle can set her own place setting with a real glass, ceramic bowl/plate, and her stainless steel utensils.

I will usually keep some of her snacks on the 2nd shelf and she just helps herself. For example, today she was having a squeezable pouch of fruit/veg puree (it’s for babies, but I love them because they’re a portable, instant smoothie! Plus it’s organic and you can put the cap back on for later.) and wanted “more!” I told her to go to her cupboard and get another one (we were upstairs), and she did!

If it’s something loose like crackers, I’ll portion it out into a container (it’s on the 2nd shelf to the left) because if I left the entire box there, she’d probably just eat them all!

The bottom shelf is really just random stuff. The black bag is her lunch bag for when we go out or when she goes to the babysitter. You can also see the red stainless steel water bottle she uses when we go out.

 

3. Living Area

- Child-sized table and chair (pictured above): Freestyle can easily sit herself down there to play, have a snack, or make a picture.

- Art supplies and toys readily available and in reach: As mentioned, we keep some art supplies on the little table. I haven’t made art supplies like paint readily available to her right now, so I will bring it out when we want to make a painting, like this one she did for her grandpa.

Her toys are also kept in the living room, tucked into a corner (well, it starts off there anyway!). I’m always trying to cull her toy collection. I remember how embarassed I felt when a friend came over and said, “Wow, it’s like a daycare in here!” We don’t buy her a lot of toys (I can maybe count on one hand the toys we bought her ourselves), but we were lucky to have a lot of hand-me-downs and gifts, and also my neighbour and I will trade and borrow.

Anyway, after that comment I did realize that it was getting a little out of control– Free does not need so many toys and also I didn’t want to overstimulate her with such a large amount. My plastic purge earlier this year helped to cut down the amount of toys. I think she only has 2 or 3 plastic toys left (which we made sure were BPA- and phthalate-free). The rest are cloth, stuffed animals, or wood. A lot of the time Freestyle makes herself busy with other things around the house too, so I know she doesn’t miss them.

 

4. Front Hall 

- Basket for Freestyle’s coats and hats: Kept on the ground so she can choose and reach them on her own. She likes to choose her own hat but I’ll usually choose which jacket based on the weather. She can put on and take off her own hat. With a little help with the sleeves, Free can put on and zip up her coat and unzip and take off the coat again. I’m going to teach her a new way to put on her coat on her own (and post about it) very soon.  Eventually, it’d be nice if we put up some low hooks on one of the walls there for her to hang up her coats and hats, but we’ll see how Biker feels about that!

You can see her little shoes on the shoe tray next to ours. She likes to bring us our shoes when we go out.

 

That’s all I’ll do for now. If anyone has any tips on making a home “more Montessori,” please share!

Re-reading a book from childhood

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(Update, May 8: I did email my friend and got such a nice response! Re-reading a good book and re-connecting with old friends…it’s been such a great week!)

When I was still a kid, maybe about 10 or 11, an older friend from my church gave me a book that she thought I’d enjoy. It was The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom. I’m re-reading it now for the 6th (7th, 8th?) time. (Just looking up the link above, I learned that her amazing house/watchshop, where they hid and saved many lives, is now a museum that you can tour! I want to go!)

The story is about Ms. Ten Boom’s amazing family in Holland as they devote their lives to saving Jewish lives during WW2. Their home became the headquarters of their local resistance against the Nazis. It’s really incredible how their faith grew and sustained their commitment to continue to doing what’s right, even when they were forced into concentration camps.

Her father and sister Betsie especially show an unwavering faith in God. I really love her father’s patient, kind, and loving style of parenting. The answer he gives little Corrie in one chapter stood out to me. At first glance, it seems like the typical “You’ll understand when you’re older” reply that many adults give children, but the way he expresses it and the physical/visual example that he gives her is just so lovely that I can absolutely imagine most kids accepting this and also feeling like they are being treated with respect.

On one of their weekly train rides, Corrie asks her dad what “sexsin,” a word she read in a poem, means. Here is his response to her:

 

“He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing. At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor. 

‘Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?’ he said. 

I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchases this morning. 

‘It’s too heavy,’ I said. 

‘Yes,’ he said. ‘And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now you must trust to me to carry it for you.’

And I was satisfied. More than satisfied– wonderfully at peace. There were answers to this and all my hard questions– for now I was content to leave them in my father’s keeping.”

- Chapter 2: Full Table, The Hiding Place, Corrie Ten Boom 

 

I’m so happy to be reading this again. I’m going to send an email to the friend who gave me the book (she is a missionary who has been living in China for…15+years?) to thank her. I have a feeling she noticed how introverted and shy I was at church and loved reading, so this was a way of reaching out to me.

It’s funny how small gestures that adults make to kids can impact them, eh?

And it’s just great how satisfying re-reading books can be- I totally agree with the cliche that they’re “like old friends,” because they really are! And you appreciate and discover new things with each read (well, if it’s a well-written, good book, that is!). And of course (sort of related to that), one of the ways to encourage a love of reading in your children is to let them see you enjoying a book!

 

What are your favourite re-reads?

Get outside!

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I’ll be honest- haven’t really been doing (prepared) Montessori activities with Freestyle lately. I chalk it up to the (mostly) good weather and also work! Though I don’t think that everything needs to be an official “lesson,” since a lot of things just come naturally (like teaching her to brush her teeth instead of just eating the toothpaste, putting on her clothes, etc.).

Mostly we have been just going outside a lot, which is great. I know that most Montessori Toddler programs put an emphasis of going outdoors with the kids. This is so that the kids have as much opportunity to be in nature as possible. I was just thinking today that we mostly live with a cement barrier between us and the earth.

When I was teaching Upper Elementary, I remember going off on a tangent while doing an outdoor lesson with a couple of boys in my class (they were the only ones who opted out of the dance lessons during gym time so I took them outside for some exercise during that period). I encouraged them to take off their shoes and socks and was just marveling at how the earth was just designed for human comfort- the spongy earth and cool grass felt so nice on bare feet, didn’t it?

I did just get some blank stares from them, but that’s okay.

So, I do like to get Freestyle out there as much as possible and have her walk, run, and jump on the grass. Get a little dirty. Explore. Use her sense to experience nature. All that good stuff.

I’m especially grateful to my friend and neighbour who is so, so great at getting her kids outdoors that it really shames me into doing it even if I don’t feel like it some days! :)

Best 11 Minutes of Your Day

Heard about this on Metro Morning today.

So good.

Was laughing and crying.

It’s a short film about a 9-year-old boy who built a cardboard arcade. What a great kid- exactly what you hope your kid will be: smart, creative, persistent, hard-working, positive, and an (sorry to use this term) out-of-the-box thinker! Kudos to his super supportive dad and his first customer (who also made the film).

 

 

Don’t the Fun Pass check and ticket dispenser just kill you?! Oh my…I love this kid!